25 October 2012
Determination
Little did I know that having too little time would eventually become an inspiration for a post, but as I went to bed last night, stressed out and drowning in work, I was struck with that old, familiar struggle between discouragement at the seemingly never-ending workload and my instinctive stubbornness and determination that has always forced me to resist self-pity and despair. After all, those who allow themselves to become defeated are the ones who do not see their goals accomplished or their dreams fulfilled and, while I am not naive enough to believe that hard work can accomplish anything, I do know that without hard work, failure becomes nearly inevitable. Most of the past great entrepreneurs did not become such by sitting on their hands, worrying and complaining about how difficult progress is in life. Rather, they developed an idea, ignored the nagging fear of failure, created a medium in which to use their idea, and worked hard to see it through. Additionally, just as one does not get anywhere by giving up, people will also not achieve their goals by blame-shifting. Perhaps our family, society, or socioeconomic status did make accomplishing our goals more challenging. Perhaps we underwent some kind of struggle or abuse that has made it difficult to rise from the ashes. All or any of these may be true, but blaming one's struggle on them will not do anything but guarantee the failure that these facts tried to ensure. Fighting despite these circumstances and taking responsibility for one's actions is the only way to achieve something.
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Good thoughts. :) And I like the new look for your blog.
ReplyDeleteI agree. It does not serve to look at circumstances, past or present, and use them as an excuse for lack of success. Circumstances are what they are and we simply have to rise above the obstacles in our path. Yes, determination.
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