Best

Perfection. This seems to be the goal of our society and every magazine has a new idea for attaining it physically, emotionally, spiritually, or psychologically. Though I was always raised to understand that we are incapable of achieving perfection through our own merits, I was still influenced by the thoughts that permeated our culture. I set high goals for myself and expect much from myself. Deep down, I never really accept excuses, even ones I claim. I know that I am responsible for my own actions and I expect myself to behave in the best possible manner at all times. No exceptions. While these goals are not in themselves problematic, they become so when they create a feeling of constantly falling short. It is easy to feel hopeless when you are unable to live up to even your own standards. Yet this is not a beneficial way of living and could ultimately cause a sense of complacency as those who try to reach perfection give up on all goals upon coming to the realization that their ultimate goal is impossible. As a result, I frequently have to remind myself that I can only do the best I can in every area of life, and that my best will include mistakes. I will inevitably fail myself and others at times. It is vital, however, that I continue to keep trying to do my best while maintaining this understanding - remaining content without complacency. This idea is far easier to cite and far harder to actually live. On occasion, I find myself genuinely shocked at the reality that I need not be perfect. I need not be discouraged when I am not so. It is a truly liberating feeling when you realize that you do the best you can in each scenario given whatever circumstances surround it and then move on. It is often the moving on part that causes many of the ensuing problems. I find myself reviewing my mistakes and remembering them daily - keeping my failures close enough to keep from achieving success or contentment. Thus, I know that I must learn the art of doing one's best and then moving forward without excessive regret. Aim for excellence, but do not expect perfection. Make goals that will strengthen you, but are also perceivably attainable. Above all, do not become discouraged. Always, always keep moving forward. One small step at a time.

This is life. We do the best we can.